By Cherrol Skosana
A respected business man, polygamist and UThando Ne’sthembu star, Musa Mseleku
opens up about his book called life and polygamy.
Speaking to Move! , the star with four wives and 10 children says his book is a revelation
that aims to correct the misconceptions around polygamy. At a time of writing his book, he felt that
those who were doing it were not doing it right. Hence this book acts as a guide on how to do
it right. The well-known reality show,
Uthando Nes’thembu emanates from this book to give exposure to the
polygamous lifestyle because he felt that many people are not exposed to it.
When Move!
asked him of what might be the cause of misconceptions about polygamy,
Mseleku says that most men get into polygamy for all the wrong reasons, for
instance, having marital problems one may think that by getting another wife
the problems will go away. That’s not how it works, he advices. “Honesty is a
key foundation to any relationship or marriage, if one wish to be in polygamy
they must be honest from onset,” he explains.
Mseleku says he has seen many abused women and children as a result of
negligence from their husbands and fathers.
“If
you want to be a polygamist, you must be emotionally strong and financially stable,
you can’t have this lifestyle if you won’t be able to maintain it,” He
concludes.
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